December
2003 - Fletcher Peacock is the Canadian author of the best-selling book, "WATER
THE FLOWERS Not the Weeds". Fletcher, who holds a bachelor's degree in science,
mathematics and physics, and a bachelor and master's degree in social work,
specializes in solution focused communication. As a trainer and consultant he
helps clients with team building, conflict resolution, managing change,
achieving better working relationships, and stress management. We wanted to
learn more about his activities and ideas and asked him some questions.
Question
1: Could you tell us how you found out about the solution focus?
I was in
Graduate School (McGill University , Canada ) and Steve de Shazer gave a talk on
Solution Focused Therapy which impressed me immensely as brilliantly simple and
immediately applicable. I was doing a mediation session between two partners
that evening. I asked the Miracle Question ("If things were going better, how
would you know? What would be different?) and suddenly what had been slow and
grueling work became simple, easy and flowing.
What
attracted you in it?
What
attracted me to Solution Focused Communication (SFC) was, and still is, the
Simplicity, the Accessibility and the Efficacy (immediate, concrete, measurable,
positive results).
How did
it change the way you work?
I am much
more Present and Future Focused. I am also much more Resource Oriented. I am now
always looking for strength and abilities of individual team members, teams and
organizations. My questions (hypnotic inductions i.e., where I focus the
Client's attention), are very different. My sequencing is usually: Miracle
Question, Exception Question, Scaling Question. Also my questions now begin with
What? and How? rather than Why? Also I am much more interested in Explanations
of Exceptions (Strengths and Resources, potential solutions) than in
Explanations of problems.
Question
2: We like the title of your book. How did you come up with it?
I love
metaphors (right brain access - "a picture is worth a thousand words"). My
original title was Water the Seeds, Not the Weeds. I am auditory and I liked the
rhyme. Also my name is Fletcher Peacock, I am an English person from Toronto,
English Canada, but I work almost entirely in French in Quebec, French Canada.
Thus I wrote the book in French.
My first
language is English and sometimes, when working in French, I miss certain
nuances. Apparently the French translation of Water the Seeds, Not the Weeds has
a very risque sexual connotation. My French Publisher insisted that I change the
title so I switched to Water the Flowers, Not the Weeds. This, incidentally, I
now consider to be a Superior title (more visual).
3. How do
you work with SF now?
I work mainly
with teams of employees and managers of all levels. I have 4 clienteles: Health,
Education, Government, and Business (perhaps (?) see website:
www.FletcherPeacockCommunicationSolutions),
also community groups. Generally I present the basic theory of Solution Focused
Communication (SFC) (as outlined in my book).
I consider styles of
cooperation (Visitor, Complainant, Customer) (Ch.6) to be quite helpful and
powerful. I then focus on questioning techniques (Miracle, Exceptions, Scaling).
We look at Videos of Solution Focused Conversations (ex.: a Manager with her
employee) and then we practice role-play of real-life cases from the
participant's life.
Which changes/steps
have you taken in applying the sf principles over the years?
Which changes? Over the
years I have become increasingly sensitive to language patterns and choice of
words, so... I talk about hypnotic patterns and also psychosomatic medicine,
e.g., the idea that each word we speak triggers biochemical, molecular, and
physiological reactions in the speaker and the listener's body. Some words
trigger endorphins (positive hypnosis) and other words trigger toxins (negative
hypnosis). Also I give more and more importance to my key phrase "I don't have
the truth" (Ch. 1), i.e., What is true and useful for me (Positive Hypnosis) may
not be true and useful for my employee/colleague/or client, hence the importance
of eliciting solutions that are respectful of, and coherent with, the client's "current
reality."
Question 4. What do you
see as the main advantages applying SF?
Main advantages of SFC?
A) Simplicity - my
perception is that we, as human beings (and I certainly include myself), are
absolute geniuses at complicating our lives. SFC arrives like a breath of fresh
air as an Invitation to Simplify our life. It suggests that even though problems
may appear quite complex, perhaps solutions can be quite simple.
B) Accessibility - SFC is
not a complex approach. It can be learned and applied quite easily and quickly.
I have many stories of people reading my book, having "insights" and beginning
to apply Solution Focused techniques and questions without ever having taken a
seminar.
C) Concrete Results - In
SFC, we are always looking for small changes in a positive direction which we
can focus on, amplify and celebrate (Water the Flowers).
D) Enjoyment (Pleasure/Fun)
- SFC focuses on the positive in individuals and in organizations. It is
inherently hypnotic, tending to trigger positive hypnotic states ("endorphins")
in the bodies of communicators and clients. In the words of a friend and
colleague (John Walter, Chicago) Solution Focused Communication (SFC) is "relentlessly
optimistic"!!
Question 5: Do you see
limitations/boudaries in applying SF? If so, where do you think SF finds its
limits?
Limits and boundaries? I have a Myers-Briggs, Enneagram and Spiritual critique
of SFC.
First, I want to say that
I Love SFC. I see it as a philosophy, an attitude, a way of life that is equally
applicable and effective in both one's professional and personal life. At the
same time it is ONE TOOL (a major one!) among several in my Communicator/Consultant's
Tool Kit. I see SFC as benefiting in some situations from the addition of other
tools and/or other awarenesses.
When you ask about "limits"
of SFC, I would rather reframe what I am going to talk about as "Opportunities
for Growth/expansion and Increased Effectiveness". Also perhaps (?) what I have
to say may be more easily applicable in the personal rather than the
organizational realm. However, my intuition is, that ultimately, there is no
difference.
A) First, SFC seems to me
to have a strong Myers-Briggs (popular Business Personality Profile - see web) -
Thinking (T) bias, i.e., rational, logical, analytical and somewhat divorced or
Dissociated from Emotions/Feeling. There does not seem to be a lot of space for
Emotional Expression, except where the emotion expressed is what we've
historically labeled positive emotions, i.e., happiness, joy, etc.
B) From an Enneagram
perspective, my guess/intuition is that SFC has a strong "7"-ish flavour/bias/orientation
(Positive, Optimistic, Future-Oriented). The Enneagram is a 5,000 year old
Personality, Typology with 9 Styles (now used to teach leadership at Stanford
MBA (1,000's of pages on the web). It suggests that we all have strengths, and
also, that we all have a "shadow side" - some part of ourselves that we are
unconsciously avoiding/denying/repressing/fleeing. Carl
Jung, the great Swiss psychologist, suggests that our "shadow" - that part of
our personality that we've spent our life avoiding and repressing - is the key
to our personal (and I suspect organizational) development. Hence, we can
benefit from Welcoming/Embracing that part of ourself that was previously denied.
The Strength of SFC is its Positive, Optimistic Future Orientation:
1) There are no Problems,
only Opportunities, 2) There are no failures, only learnings, 3) There is not
just one solution, there are thousands, and 4) There is no such thing as a
Resistant, Uncooperative, Unmotivated client; there are just people with their
unique way of cooperating.
What the Enneagram (as a
tool for personal and professional development) invites us to explore is the
question: Are there moments when we are being compulsively optimistic? Are these
moments when our positive, future orientation is an unconscious strategy for
avoiding difficult emotions in the present?
C) From a Spiritual
perspective - Who are we? What are we doing here on this Planet? In
organizations Productivity, Profitability and Efficiency are all honored values,
and Solution Focused Communication (SFC) is especially effective and useful in
promoting these values.
My intuition is that we
are moving in the direction of more explicit spirituality (not religion) in
organizations, i.e., How can we create organizations that Inspire the Soul?
There are more and more books and conferences in North America on Business and
Spirituality. SFC is a welcome and valuable piece of the puzzle AND I suggest
that SFC can benefit from other complementary Awarenesses, ex., Myers-Briggs,
Enneagram, Spirituality, and especially Non-Violent Communication (NVC), which
encourages us to focus on Feelings and NEEDS.
Question 6: Suppose it
is 2005 and you are happy with how SF is applied in the world of organisations;
what would you see happening?
SF in Organization - Year
2005. Executive Committees, Boards of Directors, Managers and Employees would
share a common Solution Focused philosophy, attitude and language. People would
work together cooperatively to find mutually beneficial, win-win solutions
wherein everyone's NEEDS (Management, Workers and Consumers) are nurtured and
satisfied. All members of the organization would have integrated the fundamental
principles: "I don't have the Truth...I have my "current truth"; and there would
be a focus on asking mutually empowering questions (Miracle, Exception, Scaling).
Also, there will be increasing openness toward Valueing and Expressing Emotional
Intelligence (What are your Feelings and NEEDS?) as presented by Marshall
Rosenberg (Non-Violent Communication 1999).
Question 7: Would you
like to share an interesting case or excercise with us?
A Brief Story perhaps (?): I like metaphors. My book is titled Water the Flowers,
Not the Weeds and, in my seminars I talk more and more about Gardening, both
inner and outer. One of my principal clients is ALCAN (the Aluminum Company of
Canada). A few years ago I delivered a three-Day Seminar to eight groups of
about thirty managers working in a Northern Quebec plant. At the end of the
series of eight seminars, the factory Director purchased 250 watering cans and
gave one to each of his managers to remind them that a key part of their job was
to be gardeners Watering the Flowers - looking for, amplifying and energizing
strengths, resources, abilities, successes in all team members. I see this as a
good example of developing a common Solution Focused (SFC) orientation and
language.
Coert Visser (coert.visser@planet.nl)
is a consultant, coach and trainer using the solution-focused approach to
change. This approach is focused on simply helping individuals, teams and
organizations to make progress in the direction of their own choice. Coert has
written many articles and a few books. His latest book (Doen wat werkt) was
awarded a prize for best (HR)management book by a professional jury and also by
a public jury. He has also interviewed thought leaders like Insoo Kim Berg,
David Maister, and Jeffrey Pfeffer. More information:
www.m-cc.nl /
www.m-cc.nl/solutionfocusedchange.htm /
Dutch network /
Dutch blog
Gwenda Schlundt Bodien is founder of
Positron,
Personnel management & Coaching. She does individual coaching, team coaching,
organizational consultancy and training. Gwenda has published a lot about HRM
and solution-focused practise.